Even saying the word vibrator used to be very taboo, but it’s 2021 and people are beginning to take charge of their sexuality. It used to be difficult to get your hands on one.
You would need to purchase one at an adult store, often in the rough part of town. Now, with the invention of online shopping, you can get anything you want delivered directly to your door, including sex toys and vibrators.
What do you need to know before buying your first vibrator?
In today’s article, we are going to answer exactly that question.
1. Get to Know Your Body
Touch and look at your body. Explore and find out what sensations you like, and what you don’t. You should have decent knowledge about your anatomy from attending school, but everyone’s body is different.
A vibrator can be used not only for penetration, but for external stimulation as well. Most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone. If you want the best of both worlds, look for a multi-functioning toy. Toys that are curved, work very well for firm, rhythmic pressure. If you‘re exploring anal, the toy you use must be flare based for added safety.
2. Do Some Research
Once you know what you like. Go online and read reviews. Look for toys that will give you the sensation that you’re seeking. There are thousands of toys on the market, so the choices can become very overwhelming. Look for the most popular options. If you want to ask questions you could visit the adult store in person.
Most people buy their sex toys online as they feel embarrassed to purchase them in person. If you’re buying online, then make sure that you buy directly from the retailer or a platform you can trust. Stay away from third-party sellers, because you have no guarantee that they aren’t selling used toys.
3. Buy Some Lube
Lubrication is your best friend when it comes to sex toys. There are numerous options online. Some are designed to highlight sensation, while others promise something else. Take your time and explore all your options. Lube helps manage pressure and friction, so you can relax and enjoy.
Try to avoid lubes that contain common irritants such as glycerin or parabens. You should only use water-based lube inside your body and oil-based can only be used externally.
4. Get Your Partner in on the Action
Once you feel comfortable using your vibrator, there is no reason not to teach your partner what you enjoy. Let them in on the action and try something new and different together. Most men will be more than happy to try sex toys especially if they are in control.
Some men may feel threatened. They may be scared that you’re trying to replace them with the toy. So, by inviting them to control the toy, you can eliminate that fear.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve never purchased a vibrator before, what are you waiting for? Don’t miss out on taking your sexual pleasure to the next level. Visit a safe site and find the ultimate sex toy. Remember, have fun and explore your body. If you don’t know what you like, how will anyone else?
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